Singles have become a trend. Where should singles go? Behind the silicone doll is demand and loneliness

Recently, the silicone doll experience hall in Nanning, Guangxi, has come into the public's view. Like the so-called "China's first silicone doll experience hall" spread on the Internet earlier, the "XX Music Experience Hall" in Guangdong, it cannot avoid public rumors. The shopkeeper Zhao Lin (not his real name) said that it was under the influence of Li Bo (boss of XX Le) that he returned to his hometown to open an experience hall.

 

Then, the topic of the silicone doll experience hall, which should have been silent, has again aroused heated discussion, but this time it is not about whether it is legal, but the impact of the silicone doll on the single society, which helps solve social indifference and loneliness!

 

We should know that the number of single people in our country has exceeded 200 million, which is a phenomenon of abnormal social development. It not only represents a serious problem of social imbalance between men and women, but also is an indescribable sorrow of a country. For them, loneliness is only a simple part of life, and they use the "home" mentality to cover up the loneliness and needs behind.

 

The emergence of the silicone doll experience hall is a new attempt. It makes us realize that normal sexual needs and spiritual deficiency have become a serious social problem. A normal export that is lacking and not accepted by society is being explored. The silicone doll, as a new thing, is humane, but challenges the public's moral bottom line.

 

But not everyone is so simple. We are all different, but also have their own unique reasons to feel lonely. For some of them, silicone dolls can help them fill the gaps in their lives, which other things cannot fill.

 

There are many debates about how silicone dolls successfully cope with loneliness. Many people swear that their lives have been greatly improved, just because they have a doll. Others believe that dolls contribute to loneliness, because they can make people far away from society and real people.

 

Why do lonely people buy silicone dolls?

 

Before we begin to study how successful these dolls are in eliminating loneliness, it is important to understand why people turn to them in the first place. These reasons are as varied as the doll itself!

 

When buying silicone dolls, many customers strive to look like real people. Usually, it may be the person you like, the celebrity idol or the image in your mind. What's more, they are deceased relatives and friends. For these people, loneliness is usually the driving factor behind their purchase, and they pursue the spiritual sublimation behind seeing things and thinking about people.

 

Another historical reason for buying dolls because of loneliness is that the old one-child policy and patriarchal concept naturally tend to have men, and women are in serious shortage. At that time, this did not cause too many problems, but today, a generation later, there are more men than women. Not everyone can choose to escape and move to other places where more women live. Compared with living alone, silicone dolls seem to be a good choice.

 

If it wasn't for social or sad issues, things would be more complicated. Some people have experienced trauma, anxiety, depression and other emotional problems in their lives, which may affect their impression on others. Although many people can solve these problems and overcome any problems they encounter, there is no clear action plan. What is helpful to one person may not be effective to another.

 

Can silicone dolls really relieve loneliness?

 

Of course, this is a matter of personal preference. Some people are completely satisfied with spending time with silicone dolls, rather than with real people, because dolls cannot completely replace real people. Most people know that these dolls are not real, but owning them will make them feel more comfortable, just like returning to a busy home, rather than a cold empty house. They feel that the dolls are waiting for them.

 

But it doesn't work for everyone. Some people find these dolls as cold as their houses.

 

Is it healthy to buy dolls to relieve loneliness?

 

When it comes to using silicone dolls to help deal with singles and loneliness, the real debate is about their long-term impact on your mental health. Opponents claim that spending time with silicone dolls encourages introverted behavior and ultimately leads to greater social isolation.

 

Supporters believed that hugging them gained a positive feeling from the company of silicone dolls. This may not be something they personally agree with, but starting to work through any positive emotions is a good way to improve overall mental health.

 

This is a good choice, provided that you have the right attitude and don't overdo it. There is nothing wrong with having a silicone doll to get extra company. You don't even need it to talk. You just hug it when you are lonely, look at it when you eat, or do anything you like.

 

Silicone doll belongs to the category of personal private life, which is a new attempt. The imbalance between men and women, the deepening of aging, and the pressures of life are more like a short-term auxiliary means, which solves the loneliness, saves some single people, and does not harm anyone. But can it really solve the bachelor problem? What is the significance of its existence and gradual development? Maybe we should look into the future, which needs to be discussed.





--Reprinted from the public account: Entity doll combat experience