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We can imagine that a physical doll is a real person
Can physical dolls become real people? In fact, many people have ideal lovers in their hearts. But the contrast between ideals and reality may create a huge contrast. Many men cannot find their ideal partner in real life. Some men have psychological barriers and are even unable to chat with women, just like Raj in the Big Bang theory who is unable to communicate and converse with women in a clear state.
Why do we view physical dolls as real people
The appearance of a physical doll is exactly the same as a real person, but many people cannot consider it as a real person. A physical doll is a soulless person who cannot speak in response to you, nor does it have your opinions or other aspects. Suggestion. She is a dead creature made of silicone resin, without human consciousness or soul. But in the eyes of some people, these physical dolls are not false individuals, but exist in our lives. They cannot find themselves in life, and physical dolls allow them to understand themselves, making them no longer feel lonely.
In fact, this is not a disease, but our human instinct. We always yearn for beautiful and ideal things, and hide the misfortunes of life. Long term accumulation can cause psychological burden, and we can no longer face this reality. The physical doll simulates the touch and appearance of reality, allowing us to find spiritual sustenance. It can always be the object of our company, and no matter what happens in the future, the physical doll will not betray us. The love of inflatable dolls tells such a story.
Lars and the Real Girl
Look! She will chat with me
The movie "Love of Inflatable Dolls" tells such a story. Lars is a single otaku. When he was born, his mother left him due to difficult childbirth. When he lacks maternal love, he grows up with an introverted personality, a sense of loneliness, and facing his brother-in-law. Shouting enthusiastically and asking without taking it seriously. Wrap yourself tightly every day, avoid physical contact with others, shrink into your own world like a hedgehog, and refuse close contact with beautiful colleague Margo.
However, Lars, who maintains a distance from the people around him, has a passion for simulating inflatable dolls like Bianca. Lars chatted with Bianca and took her to parties. Lars prepared dinner for Bianca, and when the weather was clear, she took her for a stroll in the suburban forest. They were still kissing in the forest, and Lars even wanted to marry her in church, as if Bianca had never before. It is not a dead object made of plastic. In Las' eyes, Bianca is no different from the real person.
Ras is sick, it's a fantasy. Fortunately, with the help of psychiatrist Dagmar and the cooperation of a group of kind-hearted people around him, Ras was finally cured. This is a warm and exciting story. As Dagma said in the movie, mental disorders are sometimes not necessarily a disease, they may also be a way to exercise in desperate situations, and patients are looking for a way out. When Las began to break free from his closed self, it was when he consciously passed away from Bianca.
Las finally returned to the real world, but the key question is, was he really happy when he returned to reality? Bianca has been a utopia all his life. All his misfortunes can be conversed with Bianca, finding absolute truth and ideal existence. When Las finally realized that Bianca was not a real person, he lost his absolute sense of security and once again exposed himself to this society. All reality will force the world again and again, pushing him into a corner.
When Las realized that Bianca was no longer a real person, we can say that he returned to his normal life. The question is, what is normal and what is abnormal? Is our definition of normal really normal? Is the mental disorder we define really crazy?
Is Fantasy a Disease
When we use 'symptoms' to describe behavior, it means that it is already a disease. Paranoia is a hallucination that appears in the auditory organs and is one of the common symptoms in patients with mental illness, especially schizophrenia. The explanation for its cause in psychology is that it is a form of expression about the subconscious and self suggestion.
You have a strong desire for something, but it cannot be achieved or happen immediately or in reality. Then, in the right half of the brain, there will be an illusion that only you can see and hear. If this is serious, it will be disconnected from reality. For example, most people with mental illness fantasize about the lack of reality.
Therefore, for patients with 'inflatable doll fantasy', full-size physical dolls are not made of plastic or silicone dolls, but real people. Look! She will chat with me and generate emotions and emotional reactions. All these outsiders cannot see or hear at all, just the patient's own imagination and hallucinations. Just like the roommate Nash created in 'Beautiful Mind'. In fact, due to fantasy, it is similar to Lars' 'I Want to Date an Inflatable Doll', which may be rare, but it is also a possible explanation.
Finally, let me digress a bit. In the eyes of 'normal people', these people with 'quirks' are' abnormal ', they will feel that they have a' sick brain ', which is a' different kind '. Therefore, in their eyes, what we call "normal people" and "neuroses" are not they? However, the 'abnormality' of a few of them endured the 'normal' ridicule of most of us. There must be a reason. If these people's actions do not harm us, they will feel happy doing so. Why should we mock or even mock their right to pursue happiness? The public needs to be more tolerant towards them.
Therefore, when we see news again about "men and sex dolls watching movies together" and "girls dressed as young girls are actually boys", we can slightly suppress inner discrimination and replace it. Because they are all people who need the care of this world!
Homosexuality can be slowly removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. Perhaps one day, what about fetishism, transvestism, and the "love syndrome of physical dolls"? With the development of artificial intelligence, when creating a more advanced "inflatable doll", besides being indistinguishable from real people, it also has emotional and interactive functions. Perhaps love for them will become a part of daily life. After all, every boy has a perfect lover in their heart. How do you know that in the future, you won't fall in love with a young physical doll? May every type of 'alien' be treated gently.
--Reprinted from the public account: Entity doll combat experience
Therefore, when we see news again about "men and sex dolls watching movies together" and "girls dressed as young girls are actually boys", we can slightly suppress inner discrimination and replace it. Because they are all people who need the care of this world!
Homosexuality can be slowly removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. Perhaps one day, what about fetishism, transvestism, and the "love syndrome of physical dolls"? With the development of artificial intelligence, when creating a more advanced "inflatable doll", besides being indistinguishable from real people, it also has emotional and interactive functions. Perhaps love for them will become a part of daily life. After all, every boy has a perfect lover in their heart. How do you know that in the future, you won't fall in love with a young physical doll? May every type of 'alien' be treated gently.
--Reprinted from the public account: Entity doll combat experience